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The key to responding to your loved ones paranoid behavior is patience and understanding.  Though it’s easy to become offended by their suspicions, keep in mind that it’s not personal and they’re probably just as confused and hurt as you are. 

Listen carefully to what their saying and try to understand their reality.  Don’t argue or try to convince them that they’re wrong, just let them know that you care about what they’re feeling and are very sorry that they’re feeling that way.  Let your loved one express their ideas and acknowledge their opinions before offering a simple answer.  Keep your response short and easy to understand.

To take their mind off of their suspicions, suggest another activity and focus on keeping them occupied.  Ask them for help with a chore, play a game you know they’ll enjoy or make a meal together.  To avoid their suspicions in the future, buy your loved one two of each item they value and often lose. 

For instance, if they tend to lose their handbag or wallet, buy two that are exactly the same so that they won’t be suspicious that you stole it.  Paranoia and suspicion will often pass, but it’s important to keep your cool and remain understanding.  The more worked up your loved one gets the more paranoid they become.